My Diary 2003

Yesterday is History, Tommorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift, Thats why we call it the Present

Wednesday, May 21, 2003

Yoz tweety. Goodevening manz.
Ok, for a start, hmmz.... Somehow or another, i am sorta worried about the current sec2s... many of them like not going to do well for science like that siaz. Haiz~ Hope there would be moderation...
Ok, Today someone lent me a book. Its titled "Leadership and Self-Deception" hahaz, sounds chim huhz. I was just like hanging around somewhere, picked this book up, read it and then the owner said that it was a good book and asked me to borrow it and read it.
Hmmz, it is Indeed a good book. It speaks about WE people think only about ourselves and how we fail to think in other peoples shoes. It writes "The biggest problem with you, is that you do not see what is the problem you have." How come neh? If we have problems then we should know one wad rite. Ok, so here is just one story that explains a tiny part of the whole thingie.

David the boss of a company: " I have a conference room around the corner from my office where i often to to think and strategize. The people in my department knows that the room is kind of like a second office to me and are careful now, after a few altercations over the last month, not to schedule it without my knowledge. Lask week, however, someone in the department went in and used it. And not only that, she erased all my notes from the whiteboard. Can u believe it?"
"No, thats pretty bad, She shouldnt have done that"
"Thats was i thought too. I was furious! It took me a while to reconstruct what i had done and i am still not sure that i have everything right." "I called her to my office, refused a handshake and then told her off without even askin her to sit down and said that she was never to do that again or she would be lookin for a new job"

Having read the above article, i am sure that if we were in his shoes, we would have done the same thing. But how about stopping to consider the damage done to the employee? Having erased her boss's hard work and having a nasty scolding from him, do u think she she can carry on working without worries and sleepless nites?
Sometimes, we say things that may look resonable to us, but have we ever stopped to ponder about the effects of our would be actions? It may hurt a person, causing damage although it is not intentional.

ha, actually there are more examples but i am too lazy to write out lorz =P
Anyway, gtg, tc and bye bye. O ya, got somore poems, arya, too lazy also larz hahaaha Bye~

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